Is he “female socialized” or is he just a standard flamboyant sensitive artsy gay dude who would honestly be indiscernible from any other fem gay guy if you didn’t see him as a walking vagina first and foremost.
Is she “male socialized” or is she just a tomboy with a fucking spine who doesn’t let anyone talk to her any old kind of way who would honestly be indiscernible from any feminist cis woman y’all gas up on here if you didn’t see her as a walking penis first and foremost.
If you’re lamenting the fact that you used to be able to shoot through a 500-page novel in like a day when you were in middle school and now you can’t, it’s worth bearing in mind that a big part of that is because when you were in middle school, your reading comprehension sucked. Yes, mental health and the stresses of adult life can definitely be factors, but it’s also the case that reading is typically more effortful as an adult because you’ve learned to Ponder The Implications. The material isn’t just skimming over the surface of your brain anymore, and some of the spoons you used to spend on maximising your daily page count are now spent on actually thinking about what you’re reading!
