the cis guy who i think is doing gender in the funniest way is this guy on tiktok who does these insane makeup looks that turn him into different celebrities and when it’s a woman he poses shirtless and when it’s a man he puts on fake boobs and a dress
[gripping the sink] perfectionism does not help me avoid embarrassment or shame. perfectionism is in itself a form of shame. when i struggle with perfectionism i struggle with shame. when i struggle with perfectionism i struggle with shame. when i struggle with perfectionism i struggle with shame